Saturday, May 23, 2009

Came across this post from another blog and found it interesting.

The days of innocence seemed to be something in the past. It’s now the days of ‘bares’ and ’shoots’. In case you have no idea what I’m talking about, I’m referring to those ladies / women who bared all in photo shoots done by their so called boyfriends.

You can read a lot of those in the news rather frequently these days about those women worrying that their nude photos being exposed to the public by their so called boyfriends. On one hand, I pity those women that they have to endure such fears of embarrassment. On the other hand, I just felt that they asked for it for being stupid themselves. **SIGH**

To those lonely girls / women out there, please do not think that by taking off your clothes for your men, you’ll be able to strengthen or cement your relationship. If you have a slightest thought of such, wake up .. It won’t work. It’s understandable that you are feeling lonely and desperate for a relationship. You might even be thinking that you’ll do anything just to ensure the success of the relationship. With that in mind, you’ll be made into an easy target by those ‘beasts’ preying on easy targets that are lacked of self-confidence like yourself.

Ask yourself, how well do you know your man? If you know your man by some blind dates / internet chats / etc, for heaven’s sake, please practice some sense of wisdom when going dating. Should he make such moves to request you for a nude photo shoot, be smart enough to call it quit. If he threatens to call off the relationship for your refusal of the nude shots, then call it off yourself instead. What worth is there to have such men in a relationship when they do not even bothered to respect you at all. If he doesn’t know how to love you, he certainly does not deserve any of your love at all.

Lastly, you might think what you do in private will be remain in private. Think again !! Why would you want to strip yourself for a man that you barely know ? Just because your man praise you for having such a heavenly body doesn’t mean that he loves and appreciates you at all. He could just be sweet talking you into revealing your flesh for him to keep some ’sweet memories’ for himself. And THAT, will be one of the greatest regret in your life.

Love might be blind, but you are NOT. And you are certainly not stupid either.

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Sometime i wonder what the culture in Singapore had become. Isn't us suppose to be more conservative? If you want take, please keep the photos to the two of you, safe and secure. If not, don't even think of it. And girls, please exercise more caution and be smarter. Really ensure that someone really love you before you do that. And if you do that, be prepare to face the consequences.