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Saturday, October 10, 2009

Creator of Shin-Chan dead

Crayon Shin-chan creator Usui Yoshito (51) has been missing since the 11th of September after he told his family that he was going mountain hiking in Mount Arafune, and an unidentified body was found on the 19th which has now been confirmed by the police to be the body of Usui Yoshito.

It is believed he had fallen from the Tomoiwa cliff which was near the top of the mountain, his body was found about 120 meters below the cliff. There are no railings around the cliff, but it’s not near the hiking course and there have not been any accidents in that area recently.

Usui goes mountain climbing on a frequent basis apparently


Sobs..no more shin-chan??

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Monday, June 1, 2009

Last survivor of Titanic dies

LONDON - MILLVINA Dean, the last remaining survivor of the sinking of the Titanic, died on Sunday at a care home in England, the BBC reported, citing two of her friends. She was 97.

Dean was a two-month-old baby and her family were emigrating to Kansas in the United States when the Titanic sank after hitting an iceberg in the Atlantic Ocean on its maiden voyage in 1912.

She was placed in a sack and carried to safety. Her mother and brother also survived, but her father was among the 1,500 passengers and crew who died.

Two of Dean’s unnamed friends told the BBC that she died at the care home in Hampshire, in southern England. She had spent most of her life in Southampton in the county of Hampton, from where the Titanic set out.

Dean had been struggling to pay the bills for her care home and in October 2008 raised 31,150 pounds (S$80,000) by auctioning off items from the liner.

She was forced to sell a 100-year-old suitcase filled with clothes which was donated to her family by the people of New York when they arrived in the United States after being rescued.

Rare prints of the liner signed by the artists along with compensation letters sent to her mother by the Titanic Relief Fund also went under the hammer in Devizes, south-west England.

The last remaining US survivor, Lillian Asplund, died in her home in May 2006 at the age of 99. She was just five years old when the Titanic went down. 

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Sunday, May 24, 2009

Thriathlon with disabled son

Will you bring a disabled child on a Thriathlon? Well, that's what Mr Anthony Payne, 41, a business development manager with NYSE Euronext is doing.

He is taking part in the Bintan Triathlon today with his son, Ralph, 10, who has severe learning difficulties and is unable to walk by himself.

Although Ralph suffers from a rare condition which doctors have yet to diagnose, he has been going on cycling trips with his father for the last five years. The pair even took part in their first triathlon last month.

When he takes part in triathlons with Ralph, Mr Payne swims alone before cycling with Ralph in a modified bicycle and pushing him in a push chair for the final stretch of the race.

For the Bintan Triathlon, organised by Tribob, Mr Payne will need to swim 750m, followed by a 20km bike route and end with a 5km run.

Taking part with Ralph, however, means that Mr Payne has an additional 65kg load to carry. His bike weighs 35kg and Ralph, 30kg.

Yet, he says, having his son with him during the race is not a burden, but a motivation.

He added: 'With Ralph, it becomes a different sort of race. It's less about getting a good timing, and more about having fun.'

Despite that, the pair finished their first triathlon last month in a time of 1 hour 39 minutes, placing them around 500 out of 1,000 participants.

They have been taking part in triathlons, hoping to change how people perceive the disabled.

It is difficult. But what keeps him going, said MrPayne, is a video which he saw last year.

The video, Team Hoyt, which was posted on YouTube, is about a father who also takes part in triathlons with his physically disabled son.

Mr Payne said: 'Ralph has reminded me that life isn't perfect. But as a parent and a human, I owe it to him to make him as happy as possible.'

This is why he is also racing to raise money for the Asian Women's Welfare Association school which Ralph attends.

The father-son duo have raised $30,000 so far.

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Saturday, May 23, 2009

Mas Selemat Escape

Question: How did Mas Selemat escape? Here's the answer.

JEMAAH Islamiah militant Mas Selamat Kastari took to wearing women’s clothes to escape detection after breaking out from the Whitley Road Detention Centre in Singapore last year.

Harian Metro reported that the terrorist wore several layers of clothing, which he could quickly shed and change to cover his tracks.

The Malay tabloid said Mas Selamat had used drains as his escape route to the beach in Woodlands, from which he swam across 2km under the cover of night to Stulang Laut in Johor Baru, using only children’s arm buoys as aid.

A source said he had been planning his escape for a year by constantly testing how long the guards at the centre would allow him to remain in the toilet.

> Berita Harian reported that the Kedah state financial office had been directed to submit to the Mentri Besar all the records put in by an executive council member suspected of excessive claims.

Kedah Mentri Besar Datuk Seri Azizan Abdul Razak said he had also directed the office to check if the executive council member had made his claims according to procedures and guidelines.

He was reported as saying that he would meet with the executive council member, who is currently overseas.

The daily also quoted Malay sian Anti-Corruption Commission (MACC) chief commissioner Datuk Seri Ahmad Said Hamdan as saying that investigations showed there was no case against former Tourism Minister Datuk Seri Azalina Othman Said for corruption.

However, he did not discount the possibility that other names linked to the case might have abused their powers in awarding contracts.

He also declined to elaborate if the ministry’s officials and her two senior officers – from whom MACC had recorded statements – were involved.

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Saturday, May 16, 2009

H1N1

Omg~ H1N1 is getting nearer and nearer to Singapore. Read below..


KUALA LUMPUR (Malaysia) - A NEWS report says Malaysia has confirmed its second case of swine flu.

The Star daily on its Web site says the Health Ministry has confirmed that a woman who had returned from the United States recently was infected with the H1N1 virus.

It said on Saturday that she was a friend of a 21-year-old man who was also infected with the virus and that they were both on the same flight. She remains hospitalized in northern Penang state.

Health Ministry officials couldn't be immediately reached for comment. -- AP

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Friday, May 15, 2009

Flirt yes, propose no

SINGAPOREANS think it is all right to flirt with or even dump someone using their mobile phone, but it is not acceptable to propose over the phone, a survey has found.

According to a poll by Microsoft Windows Mobile, popping the question over the phone is a big no-no, say 89 per cent of local respondents.

This finding is in stark contrast to consumers in China and India, where more than 50 per cent of those polled in a similar study said it was fine to propose marriage using a mobile phone.

Yet, nearly half of the respondents admit they have flirted with someone other than their partner via their mobile phones, with 12 per cent saying they have actually broken up with someone using short message service (SMS).

The poll seems to reinforce perceptions that Singaporeans are very attached to their mobile phones, with nearly 65 per cent even using their phones while in the loo. About half of the respondents also admit to taking calls while in business meetings, a third say they take calls during weddings and 18 per cent take calls even at a funeral.

Ironically, while 93 per cent of respondents say they have used their phones during a meal with others, 46 per cent say that it is 'inconsiderate' of others to use their phones for a chit chat while in a restaurant.

Conducted in April this year, the poll surveyed 100 Singaporeans above the age of 18. Similar surveys were also conducted with over 2,500 respondents in Australia, China, Japan, India and Taiwan.

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NUS, NTU in top 14

SINGAPORE's two biggest universities have made it to the top 14 league in the first ranking of Asian universities done by the compilers of the Times Higher Education (THE)- QS World University Rankings.

The National University of Singapore (NUS) is ranked 10th, while the Nanyang Technological University (NTU) was placed 14th by QS Quacquarelli Symonds Ltd, which compiled the rankings.

Universities in Hong Kong did particularly well. The University of Hong Kong topped the list, followed by the Chinese University of Hong Kong, and the Hong Kong Universiy of Science and Technology in fourth place.

Nunzio Quacquarelli, managing director of QS , said: 'The results of the QS.com Asian University Rankings focus on regionally relevant measures of excellence, with the top performing universities distinguished not only by quality, but also by high productivity of research, compared to their regional peers.'

He added : 'Singapore's universities have performed particularly well, with strong faculty to student ratio results. These results, combined with those of the Times Higher Education - QS World University Rankings, place Singapore's universities on the world scale for quality higher education.'

NUS was placed 30th and NTU 77th in last year's rankings.

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Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Running life of Mas Selemat

TO VILLAGERS in the sleepy village of Kampung Tawakal in Skudai, Malaysia, Mas Selamat Kastari was the meticulous gardener tending his patch of fruit trees.

To the outside world, the gardener was really a terrorist bomb-maker.

But such are the many masks of Mas Selamat that for eight months his immediate neighbours did not suspect anything until a police raid one April morning.

The villagers did not know he was Singapore's most wanted terrorist. From what they saw of him, he was ordinary, if a little private.

Neighbours said Mas Selamat kept mostly to himself and avoided eye contact.

They also said he had no visitors while he was staying at the two-storey concrete house built on stilts.

Mr Wasilan Suaudi, 53, who lives in the house next door, told The New Paper that he found out from Johar Hassan that he was a relative's son who was in a crisis and needed a place to live.

Johar lived with his family on the top floor while Mas Selamat stayed on the ground floor.

Johar, said to be a fellow JI member, was arrested by Malaysian Security Branch officers on the same day as Mas Selamat.

According to Mr Wasilan, Johar, who is in his 50s, lived in the house with his wife, a housewife, and three children aged between 3 and 12.

Neighbours said the house actually belongs to Johar's dad and it had been vacant for a while before Johar's family moved in about two years ago.

Another neighbour, Mr Jamian Simin, 70, a retiree, said Johar's father had told him that Mas Selamat was Johar's cousin.

'Johar's father said that his limping was because he had fallen from a ladder and hurt his leg at a construction site,' said Mr Jamian in Malay.

Mr Jamian did not doubt this as he knew Johar was a contractor himself.

Mas Selamat quickly blended into the life in this quiet backwater of fewer than 100 villagers who mostly kept to themselves.

Even though he was a wanted man, he did not behave or live like someone on the run, according to accounts from neighbours.

The only telling sign was that he hardly ventured out of the house's compound, leaving only to get daily necessities from a grocery store along the main road outside the village.

And he usually did this at night.

He was mostly seen working in the large garden, about the size of two basketball courts, said Mr Wasilan.

Mr Wasilan, who owns a food shop near the village, said in Malay: 'Before he came, the garden was in a complete mess. He was the one who cleaned it up.'

Mr Wasilan even led The New Paper team to a small plot of land where he said Mas Selamat had planted bittergourd, groundnuts and tapioca.

He also showed us the fruit trees with branches heavily laden with rambutans, mangosteens and jackfruits as testimony to the terrorist's green fingers.

The New Paper team counted at least six different varieties of fruit trees in the garden.

Mr Wasilan added that he often saw Mas Selamat working in the garden, wearing tattered T-shirts, long pants and yellow boots.

On occasion, Mr Wasilan said that he would speak to Mas Selamat while he was working in his garden, but their conversations never went beyond simple questions like whether he had eaten.

Mr Wasilan claimed that he never asked and did not know his new neighbour's name, addressing him only as 'abang', which is Malay for brother, when he spoke to him.

Describing him as a nice and soft-spoken man, Mr Wasilan never suspected that Mas Selamat was a terrorist and a wanted man.

He said: 'Sometimes, I see him playing with the children in the garden.'

He added that the children would also follow Mas Selamat when he went fishing by a small stream about 20m behind the house.

He would then prepare and cook the small fish he caught at a makeshift kitchen behind the house.

Asked how they felt about having a terrorist live within their midst, Mr Jamian said that he was worried as he did not know what Mas Selamat had done while he was living in the house.

Mr Wasilan, however, simply shrugged his shoulders.

He said: 'I'm not scared because I didn't know he was a wanted man. By the time I found out, he was already caught.'

No one would say what would have happened if Mas Selamat hadn't been recaptured.

Would he have continued in his idyllic routine?

The village's name - Tawakal - is actually Arabic for surrendering yourself and putting your trust in God.

By assuming the idyllic life of a simple villager, Mas Selamat appeared to have surrendered himself to the kampung that became his refuge, and his prison.

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Sunday, May 10, 2009

'No' to Pre-marital Sex

AT A sexuality education workshop in Tanglin Secondary School recently, Secondary 4 student Chan Min Jia was told by her form teacher that she should say 'no' to pre-marital sex.

'He was quite open about it and injected his own views on the subject. He told us very firmly not to even think of trying it,' said Min Jia, 16.

These workshops are held during school hours. 'We learn about different forms of intimacy and how we shouldn't befriend strangers online. I found the classes quite useful and, in fact, I cheered with the class when the teachers told us not to have sex,' she said.


I wonder how many teenagers out there are still pure? LOL....Anyway, applause to the student who said 'no' to pre-martial sex. 

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Are you jobless?

"Times are bad. It's really hard to find a job nowaday." 

That's what i normally hear from people who graduated with me this year. But is the economy really that bad? I doubt so. No matter how bad the economy is, i strongly believe that there's bound to be job around somewhere. It's just a matter of how much effort you have put in to find a job, how eager you are to find and secure a job. 

IT IS not the end of the world when you become unemployed.

Instead of staying home to twiddle your thumbs, recruiters had say that by taking up part-time jobs or offering freelance services could, besides helping to make ends meet and provide other tangible benefits too.

'A part-time position can allow workers to explore different lines of work for a broader experience; mothers can explore the flexibility of working at home,' said Mr Dhirendra Shantilal, senior vice-president (Asia Pacific) of recruitment firm Kelly Services.

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Saturday, May 9, 2009

Mas Selamat Arrest: Questions answered

JEMAAH Islamiah (JI) terrorist Mas Selamat Kastari was plotting attacks on Singapore at the time he was captured in Johor on April 1.

Malaysian Prime Minister Najib Razak disclosed this to Malaysian media yesterday, hours after Singapore's Deputy Prime Minister Wong Kan Seng told local media the JI leader escaped Singapore by swimming across the narrow stretch of water that separates Singapore from Johor, with the help of an 'improvised flotation device'.

Datuk Seri Najib told Malaysian reporters: 'We apprehended him here (in Malaysia), his main focus at the time was Singapore. He was planning a lot of things in Singapore.'

He did not provide details, but said he had 'mentioned this' to Singapore's Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong when they met in Pattaya, Thailand, on April 10-11 for the Asean summit that was eventually aborted because of protests.

Mr Lee was 'very happy and grateful that Malaysia has succeeded in apprehending Mas Selamat', said Mr Najib.

Mas Selamat, leader of a group of Singaporean JI members, escaped from the Whitley Road Detention Centre on Feb 27 last year.

He was captured in Johor on April 1, according to regional intelligence sources The Straits Times spoke to.

This was confirmed by Mr Wong at a press conference in Singapore yesterday, the same day The Straits Times broke the news of the capture.

Mr Wong said that as far as the authorities know, no local JI network was involved in aiding Mas Selamat's dash from Whitley to Singapore's northern shore.

Mr Wong, who is also Home Affairs Minister, said the Singapore Government did not inform the public of the capture earlier because doing so could jeopardise operational secrecy and perhaps even endanger sources of information.

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Friday, May 8, 2009

Mas Selemat Kastari Capture

Singapore's most wanted terrorist, Mas Selemat Kastari was captured on April 1 while hiding in Johor after a Thirteen months audacious escape from detention in Singapore. 

It is believed that he was nabbed in the outskirts of Johor Bahru and is now being held by the Malaysian authorities for interrogation. 

It is not known how he slipped out of Singapore or when he had entered Malaysia. 

Although he was arrested six weeks ago, the Malaysian authorities have not yet announced the capture. 

A senior Malaysian government official, who spoke on condition of anonymity, confirmed the arrest and said that Mas Selemat was being held under the country's Internal's Security Act. 

However, he declined to say when the terroist would be handed over to the Singapore authorities. 

It is believed that the fujitive had stayed in Johor all this time and had not travelled further north. He is also believed to be detained in Johor.

Sources told The Straits Times that the 48-year-old was tracked down based on intelligence provided by Singapore's Internal Security Departmnt (ISD), and a joint operation by Malaysia and Singapore's seccurity agencies eventually led to his arrest. 

The capture of Mas Selemat brings to an end one of the largest manhunt ever undertaken by Singapore and its neighbours for a terrorist on the run. 

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Thursday, May 7, 2009

Genius baby born

Another genuis is born. 

A newborn baby has started talking in the Russian city ofNorilsk, amazing his parents and the obstetricians, who nevertheless claim pre-natal education can work miracles.

According to the Yoki.ru website, the baby boy pronounced his first word right after he was born, distinctly saying: “Papa!”

In just a few minutes, newborn Stepan said: “Mama!”

The next day, when the boy’s mother was telling him that his dad was about to visit them at the hospital, he asked: “Who? Papa?”

The boy’s mother, Lisa Bazheyeva, is just 17 years old.

The obstetrician who helped her in labor confirms the proud mother’s report.

“I heard with my own ears that the newborn baby spoke!” said Doctor Marina Panova, adding she had never seen anything of the kind in the 23 years that she worked at the maternity clinic.

“Newborns just can’t pronounce syllables as complicated as that,” she said.

“The fetus can learn while still in the mother’s womb. If a mother talks to the fetus, entertains it as if it has been born already, the baby is usually born gifted,” Panova said.

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Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Model start for new Orchard Road

The Female & Nuyou Longest Orchard Catwalk 2009 was held at The Tent@Civic Plaza, Ngee Ann City last Friday(1 May 2009) at 7pm.

Organised by SPH Magazines and SPH MediaBoxOffice, the event features a 100m-long runway that goes from indoors to outdoors.

There were 66 international models on the runway. It was the longest staged multi-label catwalk, and presented fashion brands like Banana Republic and Vivienne Tam among others.

The event kickstarted Orchard Reloaded, a three-week programme that marks the launch of the new Orchard Road.

Mr Loh Yew Seng, CEO of SPH Magazines, said: 'We are delighted to present our signature catwalk collection... not only to our exclusive guests, but to the audience in Orchard Road.'

Other specials include a showcase by graduates of the Raffles Design Institute's Fashion Design department on Saturday.

Special promotions will be held at selected malls and retailers.

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Monday, May 4, 2009

Flu scare for NTU student

AN UNDERGRADUATE who returned to Singapore last Friday from an exchange programme in Mexico caused a scare on Sunday, when he woke up with a running nose and was admitted to the Communicable Disease Centre (CDC).

The fear of a first infected patient here turned out to be a false alarm when laboratory tests showed that Mr Melvin Yang, 25, had not been infected by any Influenza A virus.

Mr Yang, who had been on self-imposed home quarantine, was not anxious because he thought that his running nose was probably due to his body adjusting back to the environment here.
But the third-year business student from the Nanyang Technological University decided to play it safe and call 993 for the special ambulance service to ferry him to the CDC, where he got his throat swabbed and blood sample taken.

'I decided to do so as a precaution. I couldn't just think that I was all right,' he said.

He was kept overnight for observation in an isolation ward in the CDC, and said he should be discharged on Monday. 'I've been told not to worry,' he told The Straits Times from his room last night.

He is among three Singaporeans and two foreigners, who travelled here from Mexico in the last seven days, whom government officers have been monitoring over the phone.

One of the other Singaporeans has remained disease-free for seven days after returning home, and is now in the clear.

The other three people are also well, the Ministry of Health (MOH) said.

Nobody in Singapore has been found to have contracted the new Influenza A (H1N1) strain so far. Two more people who were unwell and had recent travel history were screened for the virus on Sunday, bringing the total number of such cases to 27.

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Teen girls loansharking

FOUR teenage girls aged 15 and 16 years have been arrested for suspected involvement in loansharking activities.
The first suspect was detained by two members of public while the other three were nabbed on Sunday through follow-up investigations.

Police said a man was leaving his flat when he saw two female teenagers behaving suspiciously along the corridor near a staircase landing. The two teens fled when they realised they had been spotted but the man gave chase, joined by his father who happened to be walking home. Together, they managed to detain one of the girls at a nearby void deck.

The girl had on her a marker, cans of paints and plastic bags of paint. Loanshark graffitti believed to have been scrawled by the girls was also found at the staircase landing of one block in the vicinity.

Following the first arrest, officers soon established the identities of three other accomplices and rounded them up later.

First-time offenders found guilty of loanshark harassment face a fine of between $4,000 and $40,000 or a jail term of up to three years, or both.

Superintendent Hsu Sin Yun, Commander of Ang Mo Kio Police Division HQ, thanked the two members of public for their public-spiritedness and cautioned youths against being made use of by loansharks to carry out illegal activities.

In just the first three months of the year, police had to deal with nearly 4,000 cases of loanshark harassment tactics. That is double the number in the same period last year.

In has become so bad that police are considering nailing those who borrow from loansharks as well.

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'Spiderman' burglar nabbed

A suspected serial burglar, dubbed the 'Spiderman', who is believed to be involved in a spate of break-ins in Sengkang was arrested on Sunday.
The 29-year-old was spotted climbing into a second floor unit of Block 172B Edgedale Plains by an alert resident, who called the police immediately.

Ang Mo Kio Police Division officers arrived promptly and cordoned the area, and waited for the suspect to emerge. He was nabbed after he climbed down the unit.

The suspect is believed to be involved in a series of break-ins reported in Sengkang estate over the past two months. Police found in his posession some cash, laptops, cell phones and valuables totalling about $3,000.

He will be charged in court.

Commander of Ang Mo Kio Police Division HQ, Superintendent Hsu Sin Yun commended the alert resident and urged members of public to ensure all doors, windows and other openings are well secured with good quality grilles and close-shackled padlocks, and to install an anti-burglar alarm system.

He also adviced residents to keep expensive jewellery in a safe deposit box, and large amounts of cash in the bank. Informing one's neighbours if they are leaving home for a long period of time would also help, he added.

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SM Goh has chicken pox

SENIOR Minister Goh Chok Tong was admitted to the Singapore General Hospital on Monday for chicken pox, a statement from the Prime Minister's Office said.
'As chicken pox is caused by the varicella zoster virus, which is transmitted by the airborne route, SM Goh's doctors decided to admit him to an isolation ward,' the statement said.

Mr Goh's condition is satisfactory and he is expected to be discharged in about a week's time, it added.

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Saturday, May 2, 2009

Google, First US$100b Brand

GOOGLE can now call itself a billion-dollar brand.

A business survey found that the search engine giant has become the world's first $100 billion ($148b) brand.

Its value was almost 25 per cent more than its rival, Microsoft, according to the annual BrandZ Top 100 Most Valuable Brands report.

Google's label value rose 16 per cent in just one year.

While the overall value of the top 100 brands has risen by 2 per cent in the past year despite the turbulence in the global economy.

It is the third year in a row that Google has secured the top spot.

'Google's rank has been driven by fantastic financial performance and equity value,' said Mr Peter Walshe, the global account director at Millward Brown.

Ms Lorraine Twohill, Google's marketing manager, told The Daily Telegraph: 'We know that without consumers you have nothing and there is a great element of trust in us.

'We think about the consumer first and expect everything else to fall into place after that.

'We don't feel big. We still work in little, scrappy teams and we feel very small.'

Google, formed at Stanford University by students Larry Page and Sergey Brin in 1997, went up 16 per cent in brand value in the past year to just break the US$100b mark.

Industries that saw their value grow over the past year are mostly 'stay at home' brands, said the Millward Brown research.

Coffee companies like Nescafe benefited from cutbacks on drinking expensive lattes in Starbucks and other coffee shops, for instance.

Soft drinks, fast food and beer brands also grew as more people stayed at home to eat and drink while online sites like eBay and Amazon also grew.

Car companies, insurers, clothing brands and, not surprisingly, financial institutions were the ones that suffer the most, the research found.

'In the current environment, where the value of many businesses has fallen, brand has become even more important because it can help to sustain companies in tough times,' said Millward Brown Optimor chief Joanna Seddon.

The top five brands are:

1. Google: US$100b

2. Microsoft: US$76b

3. Coca-Cola: US$68b

3. IBM: US$67b

4. McDonald's: US$67b

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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Are you calling me a prostitute?

IN Singapore, it is not uncommon to hear someone address a female stranger as 'xiao jie' (miss in Mandarin).

That was how one salesman addressed a woman who walked by his shop.

But that was also what got him into hot water with the woman, a Chinese national.

Why?

In China, the term 'xiao jie' is often used to mean 'prostitute'. It is seen as disrespectful to address a woman as 'xiao jie' there. (See report below.)

The incident took place last Tuesday at a handphone shop in People's Park Complex.

Around 4.30pm that day, a 26-year-old Chinese national who gave her name only as Miss Wang was walking past the shop with her friend, Miss Zhou, also 26.

One of the salesmen in the shop, who wanted to be known only as Ah Siang, told The New Paper that he called out 'da jie' (older sister in Mandarin) to the two women.

'I wanted to get their attention so they could take a look at the handphones in the shop,' the 19-year-old Malaysian said.

'One of the women then nudged the other and told her I had just called her 'da jie'. She also asked her friend if she looked very old.'

Thinking that he may have been rude to call the women 'da jie', Ah Siang then addressed them as 'xiao jie'.

But that did not sit well with Miss Wang, who took offence at being called 'xiao jie'.

In a phone interview with The New Paper, Miss Wang, who works as a designer in Singapore, claimed the salesman had called her 'xiao jie' at least five times in a mocking tone.

'He even asked me what that term meant. When I didn't respond, he shouted even louder at me,' she said.

'I didn't want to react initially. We are graduates and such name-calling is uncouth. He should have respected us.'

When Ah Siang and his colleague tried to reason with Miss Wang, she became more upset and splashed the water in a bottle she was holding at the colleague.

Miss Wang, who is from Liaoning in north-east China, admitted she did this.

Ah Siang claimed that Miss Wang also hit his colleague with the mineral water bottle, but the woman denied doing that.

Miss Wang claimed Ah Siang's colleague then spewed vulgarities at her.

Scuffle

A heated argument and a scuffle followed.

Miss Wang claimed one of the salesmen in the shop threw a stapler at them. It hit Miss Zhou in the abdomen. There were four or five employees in the shop at that time.

But Mr Anthony Lau, the shop's manager who was also there at that time, said that the stapler had accidentally hit Miss Zhou during the scuffle.

Miss Zhou sustained a bruise on her abdomen as a result.

The commotion drew a huge crowd of onlookers outside the shop.

After a while, Ah Siang said he and his colleagues stopped arguing with the women.

'We even told them to call the police if they wanted,' he added.

And the women did.

A police spokesman confirmed that the police received a report about the dispute at People's Park Complex at 4.30pm that day.

Miss Zhou, who was slightly injured, was advised on what she could do if she wished to pursue the matter, the spokesman added.

Ah Siang said he had no intention of causing any trouble by calling Miss Wang 'xiao jie'.

'Why would I want to find trouble with her? I just started work two days (before the incident),' he said.

Mr Lau added: 'I've had this shop for seven years. This is the first time something like this has happened.'

'The term 'xiao jie' is just a courteous way of addressing our female customers.'

He and Ah Siang claimed that they did not know that the term could be seen as derogatory to women in China.

But Miss Wang, who has lived in Singapore for three years, said: 'I'm sure many people in Singapore know what 'xiao jie' means in China.'

So people out there must take note of how you address people when you are in a foreign country.

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i know that i loved you ...
and i Always do~

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    Yeo Wee Meng
    20 Years Old
    21-o2-1989
    Happily attached to Vivien Ho
    Specialise in IT field
    Serving NS

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